Conscious Luck: Eight Secrets to Intentionally Change Your Fortune
By Gay Hendricks & Carol Kline
我最有共鳴既point係作者建議我地要搵自己既lucky tribes:
“You may come across friends and family in this process who aren’t people you share victim stories with but who you feel, in some way, don’t
support or celebrate your growth and success. Maybe they feel threatened by you changing or don’t approve of the direction you want to take in your life. It doesn’t matter why—these people also don’t qualify as members of your lucky tribe, at least for now.”
“When you’ve identified all those who are not in your lucky tribe, the next step in your journey to being lucky is to skillfully separate yourself from
these people and develop new, more positive connections and associations. This doesn’t have to mean rejecting or completely severing ties with those who aren’t in your lucky tribe. But it does almost always require spending less time with them, at least until you’re strong enough to 1) resist the old toxic patterns of sharing victim stories; or 2) not feel discouraged by their lack of support and approval for your goals and dreams.”
A powerful way to hang out with some of the luckiest, most influential people on the planet is through personal development audio programs,
videos, and books. If you were to take fifteen to thirty minutes a day to soak up the wisdom available in libraries, in bookstores, and on the internet, you’d be amazed at the powerful positive impact this could have on your life. Anyone, anywhere, can take advantage of the support this universal lucky tribe offers.‘’